Connections

Why does it seem easier to forgive someone who has tormented you your entire life, than someone you loved that hurt you once?

A sense of betrayal, to your senses, your connection to them, your heart....

...it almost feels irreparable.

However, you want to believe it will never happen again. You want to believe that person will change.

Somehow that road does not feel safe or wise, and it probably isn't. You don't want to hurt that person, even though they have hurt you.

Does that person want to stay, or do they want pure absolution? Which will hurt less?

Someone you loved can not forget the intense pain your betrayal has inflicted on them, but with time and care that wound could be cleaned, healed, and hopefully leave a scar that's unnoticeable...

...or you could decide that's too painful.

"I will absolve you completely in my mind, in exchange for the abandonment of our former bond."

A bond of love is not easily broken, but it changes like the wind.

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